Divorce

Divorce

And they said Moses suffered [permitted] to write  bill of divorcement, to put her away [dismiss] Mark 10:4

Divorce is something that God hates, but He will allow it according to the circumstances such as any form of abuse and adultery, but even in these cases, it should be brought to God prior to filing for a divorce. Divorce has come about because our desires are not being met, we have fallen out of love with our spouse or we just don’t want to be married anymore. (more…)

Marriage

Marriage

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder – Matthew 19:6

The Pharisees try to tempt Jesus with a difficult question. They wanted to test His wisdom with one of the most controversial questions of their day regarding divorce according to the Mosaic Law but Jesus refers them to God’s original purpose in creation, that they should be “one flesh” indicates that being one flesh is one new entity, and is not limited to sexual union. The Bible clearly indicates that sexual union does not itself constitute marriage, which is fundamentally a covenantal agreement between two partners for life. (more…)

Love and Marriage

Love and Marriage

And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery – Mark 10:11-12.

God established the home even before the church. God intended the home to be heaven on earth. It is an example of the relationship He desires for His church. A home can’t be in unity when division, controlling and domineering has crept in. God doesn’t want either spouse to be controlled by the other. When we come against each other, we really are coming against ourselves because according to the Bible, when married, we’re no longer two but one flesh. (more…)

Emotions

Emotions

And let us not be weary  in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not – Galatians 6:9

It is God’s greatest desire that as believers, you and I progressively learn how to be led by His Spirit. However, there is a powerful enemy that stands in the way: our emotions as well as the Adversary.  Satan is the most powerful enemy we face externally but internally, it’s our emotions that give us some of the biggest problems. Emotions are strong, complex internal responses that result in bodily changes. There are sometimes helpful and at other times hurtful. They come in positives and negatives. They are not evil, but they also are not holy.

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Points For A Thriving Marriage

Points For A Thriving Marriage

Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice. And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ sake hath forgiven you – Ephesians 4:31-32.

Marriage is work, this maybe why some have forsaken the principals of God and live together without making the marriage vow. A vow is something that shouldn’t be broken. A marriage takes one hundred percent from both partners. When we give our all and not be selfish or self-centered, the marriage will thrive, and it was last for a lifetime. (more…)